男孩钉子与篱笆的故事
Ⅰ 篱笆上的钉子故事梗概
从前,有一个脾气很坏的男孩,他的爸爸给了他一袋钉子,告诉他,每次专发脾气或者跟别属人吵架以后,就在院子的篱笆上钉一根钉子。 第一天,男孩钉了37根钉子。以后的日子里,他慢慢学着控制自己的脾气,每天钉的钉子逐渐减少了。他发现,控制自己的脾气实际上比钉钉子要容易的多。 终于有一天,一根钉子都没有钉,他高兴地把这件事告诉了爸爸。 爸爸说:“从今以后,如果你一天都没有发脾气,就可以从篱笆上拔掉一根钉子。”日子一天一天过去,最后,篱笆上的钉子被全部拔光了。 爸爸带他来到篱笆边,对他说:“儿子,你做得很好,可是,看看篱笆上的钉孔吧,这些洞永远也不可能恢复原来的样子了。就像你和一个人吵架,说了些难听的话,你就会在他心里留下一个伤口,像这个钉子洞一样。” 插一把刀子在一个人的身体里,再拔出来,伤口就难以愈合了。无论你怎么道歉,伤口总是在那儿。要知道,身体上的伤口和心灵上的伤口一样都难以恢复。
Ⅱ 关于钉子的故事 有一个小孩很爱生气,他的爸爸用钉子的故事教育了他,
一个小男孩脾气很不好,他爸爸为了制止他,给了他一袋钉子,说:“你每发一次脾气专,就往篱笆上钉一个钉属子.如果你一天都不发脾气,就拔掉一颗钉子.”第一天,小男孩往篱笆上钉了37颗钉子,第二天钉了2颗钉子.随着时间流逝,小男孩钉的越来越少,最后,他终于拔完了所有的钉子.
爸爸带小男孩看着篱笆说:“你看,虽然你不再发脾气,但你过去发脾气也像篱笆上的钉子洞一样深深的印在人们心里.”
从此,小男孩再也没发过脾气.
Ⅲ 关于钉子的故事
最后,小男孩往篱笆上钉了37颗钉子,他终于拔完了所有的钉子,但你回过去发脾气也像篱笆上的答钉子洞一样深深的印在人们心里,他爸爸为了制止他。随着时间流逝,给了他一袋钉子,第二天钉了2颗钉子一个小男孩脾气很不好。,小男孩再也没发过脾气。”第一天。如果你一天都不发脾气,虽然你不再发脾气,就往篱笆上钉一个钉子:“你看。。”
从此,就拔掉一颗钉子:“你每发一次脾气。
爸爸带小男孩看着篱笆说,小男孩钉的越来越少,说
Ⅳ 钉子的故事主要内容
一个小男孩脾气很不好,他爸爸为了制止他,给了他一袋钉子,说:“你每发一版次脾气,权就往篱笆上钉一个钉子。如果你一天都不发脾气,就拔掉一颗钉子。”第一天,小男孩往篱笆上钉了37颗钉子,第二天钉了2颗钉子。随着时间流逝,小男孩钉的越来越少,最后,他终于拔完了所有的钉子。
爸爸带小男孩看着篱笆说:“你看,虽然你不再发脾气,但你过去发脾气也像篱笆上的钉子洞一样深深的印在人们心里。”
从此,小男孩再也没发过脾气。。。
Ⅳ 篱笆上的钉子这个故事的含义是什么
篱笆来上的钉子洞,这些自洞永远也不可能恢复了。就象你和一个人吵架,说了些难听的话,你就在他心里留下了一个伤口,像这个钉子洞一样。"插一把刀子在一个人的身体里,再拔出来,伤口就难以愈合了。无论你怎么道歉,伤口总是在那儿。要知道,身体上的伤口和心灵上的伤口一样都难以恢复。你的朋友是你宝贵的财产,他们让你开怀,让你更勇敢。他们总是随时倾听你的忧伤。你需要他们的时候,他们会支持你,向你敞开心扉。"告诉你的朋友你多么爱他们,告诉所有你认为是朋友的人
Ⅵ 男孩与篱笆的故事
从前,有一个脾气不好的男孩.他的爸爸给了他一些钉子,告诉他,每次发脾气或者跟人 吵架的 时候,就在院
子的篱笆上钉一根。第一天,男孩钉了37根钉子。后面的几天,他学会了控制自己的脾气,每天钉的钉子也
逐渐减少了。他发现,控制自己的脾气,实际上比钉钉子要容易的多。终于有一天,他一根钉子都没有钉,他高兴的把这件事告诉了爸爸。爸 爸说:“从今 以后,如果你一天都没有发脾气,就可以在这天拔掉一根
钉子。”日子一天 一天过去,最后, 钉子全被拔光了。爸爸带他来到篱笆边上,对他说:“儿子,你做得
很 好,可是看看篱笆上的 钉子洞,这些洞永远也不可能恢复了。就象你和一个人吵架,说了些难听的话,
你就在他心里 留下了一个伤口,像这个钉子洞一样。”插一把刀子在一个人的身体里,再拔出来,伤口就
难 以愈合了。无论你怎么道歉,伤口总是在那儿。要知道,身体上的伤口和心灵上的伤口一样都 难以恢
复。你的朋友是你宝贵的财产,他们让你开怀,让你更勇敢。他们总是随时倾听你的忧 伤。你需要他们的
时候,他们会支持你,向你敞开心扉。告诉你的朋友你多么爱他们,你会发 现你有一个很大的朋友圈子。
最后,我要说:“友谊的幸福之一,是知道了可以向朋友倾吐 秘密。”如果你看到了这个故事,表明有人
在默默的祝福你,因为你也爱你身边的一些人。
Ⅶ 男孩和钉子的故事
The Nail
There was a little boy with a bad temper.His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper,to hammer a nail in the back fence.
The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence.
Then it graally dwindled down.He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.
Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all.He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.
The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence.He said,"You have done well,my son,but look at the holes in the fence.The fence will never be the same.When you say things in anger,they leave a scar just like this one.You can put a knife in a man and draw it out.It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry,the wound is still there.A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one.
Friends are a very rare jewel,indeed.They make you smile and encourage you to succeed.They lend an ear,they share a word of praise,and they always want to open their hearts to us.Show your friends how much you care.
注:人与人之间常常因为一些彼此无法释怀的坚持,而造成永远的伤害.如果我们都能从自己做起,开始宽容地看待他人,相信你(你)一定能收到许多意想不到的结果.帮别人开启一扇窗,也就是让自己看到更完整的天空.
Ⅷ 《钉子和篱笆》故事中小男孩为什么钉许多钉子就改掉了坏脾气
人与人之间常常因为一些无法释怀的事而僵持,造成了永远的伤害。如果我们都能从自己做起,开始宽容地看待他人,相信你一定能收到许多意想不到的结果。为别人开启一扇窗,也就是让自己看到更完整的天空。是因为他学会了忍耐、可以控制自己的脾气、但是钉子虽然拔掉了、却留下了不必要的伤害、钉子没了钉子孔还在
。
1.要认识到易怒的危害性。要提醒自己:乱发脾气有害身体健康,会导致各种生理、心理的疾病;同时,会影响人际关系,为自己的进步人为地设置障碍。所以,一定要认真地加以克服。
2.首先要学会情绪的转移。遇到不顺心的事,不要总是放在心上,可以做做体育活动,用汗水冲走不快;也可以听听音乐,去绘画,看电视。总之,做你喜欢做的事情,借此转移自己的注意力,放松一下,从而消除不良的情绪。同时,还可以找朋友或师长谈心,把“不顺心”的事说出来,让他们为你分担烦恼,在交谈中逐步改善心境。平时也应注意培养自己乐观、豁达、开朗的性格,做一个身心健康的人。
Ⅸ 小男孩与钉子的故事 英文版
The Nail
There was a little boy with a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, to hammer a nail in the back fence.
The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence.
Then it graally dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.
Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.
The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, "You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the wound is still there. A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one.
Friends are a very rare jewel, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share a word of praise, and they always want to open their hearts to us. Show your friends how much you care.
注:人与人之间常常因为一些彼此无法释怀的坚持,而造成永远的伤害。如果我们都能从自己做起,开始宽容地看待他人,相信你(你)一定能收到许多意想不到的结果....帮别人开启一扇窗,也就是让自己看到更完整的天空....